If you think of it critically, there is no scarcity in the world. What many experience as scarcity or disadvantage is, to a large extent, the human system’s way of getting rid of extras that it produces.
I know it may sound disorienting but if you look at the world as an organism and not an organization, you’ll understand how we only live and work to produce surpluses.
And so, wars, pandemics, shareholder value, world poverty, corporate profits and almost every other concept in the world are tied to the human nature of excess, and how we either expend or dispose of this excess. And because these concepts are always on the rise, scarcity should not be the basis of economic thought, excess is.
Spaces always tell you two things no matter where you find yourself.
Reproduce or migrate.
Recognizing the message coming to you from the space in you find yourself is critical to your survival, sustenance and success. If it won’t let you reproduce, then it is time to migrate.
A lot of things in life have no specific timeframes like when exactly the Coronavirus pandemic ends or when the startup in which you have a stake becomes monetizable.
What we have is what we know in the very short term, and most often, nothing new. However, what we know about the long run is that this phase, in which we currently find ourselves, will pass if we are resilient enough.
The change we desire or seek is in the long tail. We just need to be resilient enough to wait it out.
As many parts of the world move headlong into the second wave of the Coronavirus pandemic, and possibly, into another series of lockdowns, I want to remind you that gratitude trumps anxiety.
You cannot be grateful and anxious at the same time. And let this serve as a pointer to a superpower that you already possess for dealing with anxious moments.
So this is how it works. Whenever you start to feel anxious about anything at all, switch on your gratitude button, and start to feel grateful for any good thing in your life, right in the midst of that anxious moment. Understand that anxiety and gratitude are like ice and fire; that anxiety simply cannot hold sway in the presence of gratitude. Try it!
If leadership is about one’s ability to influence others through specialized knowledge, then, you need to understand that people don’t care how much you know as a leader until they know how much you care about them.
This one attribute, the caring for others, is the number one skill in leading.
Your people, children, friends, colleagues and so on, always want to know you have their backs before anything else.
The subject of passion has been brow-beating for some time, and truth be told, you do need passion to execute any project.
As is often said, you can either do work you are passionate about or become passionate about your work.
But to relegate passion, the excitement you might feel in any of your pursuits, is to settle for half-measures in work and life.
Be thankful when people reject you. You may push back for a reconsideration but if they kick you out the door, don’t go back.
Understand that life is full of options and the current feeling of being rejected will pass.
Just like winter, the temporality of rejection, comes and goes, but what will replace it, may just be the most beautiful time you are yet to experience. Hang in there. The rejection will certainly pass.
Sometimes, we have these huge goals or deadlines and just feel stuck in our heads as to how to go about them.
The problem is that we are thinking too big about the task ahead and attaching too much pressure, which is why we procrastinate.
Until you start doing the task, you won’t even know how you truly feel about it, or whether it’s even something you want to do. The simplest way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time. So, chunk down the task in front of you, and get to work.
If you ever get a complaint from a friend, customer or lover, cherish it as a gift.
Recognize that it is easier to walk away than to complain, and that complaints are a show of loyalty.
If you go by the statistics that say only two out of every ten customers complain instead of quietly moving away to competitors, and apply this to your life, it might change your perspective and help you see complaints as gifts.
The semblance of normalcy in any locale is always a pointer to the existence of some masked absurdity.
Human systems are often binary, having both beauty and ugliness within them. So the notion that space is void of any type of good or evil is, in essence, naive.
The Jekyll-and-Hyde aspects of human nature and existence must never be left unaccounted, particularly, when all you’ve heard about a person, place or thing are good or bad, and not the good and bad.