Not everyone is your friend. As a matter of fact, you have fans, contemporaries and confidants.
Your fans are people who like you from afar based on their perceptions of you. Contemporaries are people that are usually on the same path in life as you with whom you might share resources. Confidants, on the other hand, are people who love you for you with whom you share secrets.
If you look at your life critically, using this frame of reference, you will find that you don’t have many friends.