One of the mistakes many people make is to think that they are like others.
So, they use the frames of other people’s success without understanding the commitments, sacrifices and dalliances these people had to make to reach success.
First of all, you are not like anyone else so quit trying to be. You have to look for your own frame and build your life without looking at who did it before you. I mean , learn from the mistakes of others but concentrate on you without comparing yourself to anyone else.